Momma’s Guide to Your Best Year Ever
You deserve to live a joy-filled, happy year.
Hey there, momma. I get it—life is BUSY. I’m a mom, a college student, a business owner, a designer, and the communications gal at my church. My calendar is packed, but I wouldn’t trade any of it because I love the things I do. Still, this year, I’m making a shift. My personal goal is to prioritize health, heart, and fitness. Because when we feel our best, we can give our best to the people and things we love. Let’s take on this year together with a plan that works, even when life is full. Let’s make this your best your ever!
Momma’s Six-Step Guide to Your Best Year Ever
Welcome to Momma’s Six-Step Guide to Your Best Year Ever! Girl, there’s always room to grow in heart, health, and happiness, and this guide is your perfect companion to kick off the new year and the better YOU. Whether you’re juggling kids, church, work, or just trying to find a moment to breathe, these six steps will help you focus on what matters most, set meaningful goals, and take small, joyful steps toward becoming your best self. Let’s embrace the journey together—because we’ve got this!
Step 1: Reflect on Your Wins and Lessons
Before we look forward, let’s look back. What went well for you last year? And where did things get off track? I’ve realized I’m great at overloading my plate but not so great at resting. Reflecting on last year helped me see where I need to grow—and what I’m already crushing.
What I’m doing: My big win last year was creating better family routines. The lesson? I need to stop saying yes to every project at church.
Your turn: Write down one win and one lesson from last year. This will help you move forward with clarity.
Step 2: Set Realistic and Exciting Goals
This year, I’m focusing on goals that feel good to me, not just what I “should” do. That’s why my mantra is health, heart, and fitness. I’m not aiming to run a marathon (yet), but I do want to take intentional steps toward a healthier me.
My goal: Walk three times a week, cook one new healthy recipe each month, and schedule regular family time.
Your plan: Pick one or two goals that excite you and fit your current season. Then break them into small, manageable steps.
Step 3: Craft a Morning Routine That Centers You
Let’s be real: mornings are a circus. Between getting the kids ready, checking emails, and prepping for church projects, I often feel like I’ve already run a marathon by 9 a.m. But carving out even five minutes for myself has been a game-changer.
My routine: I drink a glass of water, write down three gratitudes, and read a quick devotional before diving into the day.
Your challenge: Start with one small thing that centers you—whether it’s stretching, journaling, or just enjoying your coffee without distractions.
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Step 4: Make Self-Care a Non-Negotiable for the Best Year Ever!
I know, self-care feels impossible. There’s always someone or something that needs your attention. But this year, I’m learning that taking care of me helps me take better care of everyone else.
My practice: I block out time for a workout or a walk, even when it feels indulgent. It’s not a luxury; it’s a necessity.
Your next step: Choose one thing that feels like self-care to you and put it on your calendar. It could be a workout, a nap, or a creative project that lights you up. And if you need inspiration for staying disciplined in your self-care routine, check out this article: 5 Steps to Developing More Discipline. Building discipline can help you prioritize self-care and, ultimately, reach your goals..
Step 5: Lean on Your Support System
Friend, life is hard, but you don’t have to do it alone. I’m so grateful for my support network—whether it’s my family, my church crew, or my entrepreneur friends’ group chat. Having people who “get it” makes all the difference.
What I do: I make time for bi-weekly coffee (online) with a mentor from church and lean on my husband when I’m overwhelmed.
Your action item: Think about who you can count on this year. Text a friend, join a group, or start a weekly prayer call. Connection keeps us going.
Step 6: Celebrate Progress Over Perfection
One of the biggest lessons I’ve learned is that progress, not perfection, is what really matters. I’m the queen of setting high expectations and feeling defeated when I fall short. But this year, I’m celebrating every small step forward.
My trick: I’ve started keeping a “joy journal” where I jot down little wins each day. Even something as simple as drinking enough water goes in there.
Your move: Find a way to celebrate your progress. A journal, a family dance party, or treating yourself to something special—whatever makes you smile.
Let’s Make This Year Ours You don’t need to have it all figured out, momma. You just need to take one step at a time. This year, I’m committing to health, heart, and fitness, and I’m inviting you to join me. We’re in this together, balancing all the things while making room for what matters most. Let’s make it a joy-filled, happy year—because we both deserve it. Are you ready for your best year ever?
